X happens and even before it has happened, your mind is at work, ready to interpret and ascribe meaning to it, pretty much without any conscious intervention from you at all.This is a sobering discovery.
But in one way good news, because it means that we can change what we are experiencing at work and in our lives, without having to change what is actually happening, but simply by adjusting what our minds are up to.
Here's my list of 39 simple (and nearly free) ways to change your experience of your day:
- Dance around to loud music from your youth
- Say a personal "thank you" instead of just filing that email
- Have a 5 minute tidy-up session
- Call a friend
- Go for a hike
- Take a nap
- Stand at the window (NB for extra oomph, you can wave at a colleague or passerby)
- Cook something tasty
- Be a courteous driver
- Go fly a kite
- Lie on the floor and notice everything you haven't seen before
- Give someone a hug
- Sing in the car
- Walk around the block
- Have lunch with someone dear
- Raise your head and have a pointless think
- Go ride a bike
- Read a book in the middle of the day
- Light a candle
- Send someone a postcard
- What snippet do you know that a colleague might find useful? - Go tell them
- Visit a bookshop coffee bar
- Drill/sand/bash some wood
- Go commando, you know you want to
- Watch/listen to some comedy
- Rip up a newspaper and recycle bad news for something better
- Smile
- Wear Sunscreen
- See if you can get a boomerang to come back
- Make a cup of tea as a surprise for a colleague
- Look at the stars/moon/clouds
- Do the crossword
- Stick a Post-It on your forehead labeled "remember to change my mind sometimes"
- Rent a movie
- Pray
- Touch a tree
- Splash through a puddle
- Prune a bush
- Sit in a different place/chair with a cuppa
Will you please add your own to this list by clicking on the COMMENTS link below?
Send a friend a present out of the blue. Much more fun and rewarding than doing so on a birthday. Amazon Prime is good for this, because you don't pay for postage each time, and you can send to any UK address.
ReplyDeleteSmile and say good morning to the first stranger you see each morning!
ReplyDeleteGreat Blog Post, thank you.
Paint your bedroom! Quite therapeutic when you are waiting for your next contract to come through.
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